Anger elicits anger, fear elicits fear, no matter how well meaning we may be. Martha Beck angerelicitfear Change image and share on social
One reason most people never stop thinking is that mental frenzy keeps us from having to see the upsetting aspects of our lives. If I'm constantly brooding about my children or career, I won't notice that I'm lonely. If I grapple continuously with logistical problems, I can avoid contemplating little issues like, say, my own mortality. Martha Beck aspectavoidbrood share on social
Painful events leave scars, true, but it turns out they're largely erasable. Jill Bolte Taylor, the neuroanatomist who had a stroke that obliterated her memory, described the event as losing '37 years of emotional baggage.' Martha Beck baggagebolteemotional share on social
Whatever terrible things may have happened to you, only one thing allows them to damage your core self, and that is continued belief in them. Martha Beck beliefcontinuecore Change image and share on social
As soon as you think you know someone else's truth better than they do, you are in deep water. Martha Beck deeptruthwater Change image and share on social
I'd like to help repair the earth's ecosystems, and to fully live until I'm fully dead. Martha Beck deadearthecosystem Change image and share on social
The way we can allow ourselves to do what we need to, no matter what others may say or do, is to choose love and defy fear. Martha Beck choosedefyfear Change image and share on social
I suggest Substituting Inedible Nurturance, or SIN. Don't replace overeating with virtuous work or exercise; instead, make a list of things you love, from watching TV to hanging out with favorite people. Martha Beck exercisefavoritehang share on social
If we're stuck with having expectations, there's a very good reason to embrace positive ones: It's that we often create what we anticipate. Martha Beck anticipatecreateembrace Change image and share on social
When your entire brain is active, that means you are taking everything in through all sense perception. Your entire memory bank and your instincts are in play, so you make much quicker and more intelligent choices. Martha Beck activebankbrain share on social