I believe that often people even stay in bad relationships longer than they should because the fear of the pain of dating is scarier than the pain of a bad relationship! Karen Salmansohn baddatefear Change image and share on social
I believe we create a lot of problems in our relationships if we don't feel safe to talk about our feelings at the speed of life. Karen Salmansohn createfeelfeeling Change image and share on social
The more you believe that you deserve healthy love, the more you will conquer and attract. Karen Salmansohn attractconquerdeserve Change image and share on social
You must remind yourself: The #1 reason to merge your life with a man is that he makes you feel happier - not more anxious and depressed. Karen Salmansohn anxiousdepressfeel Change image and share on social
When you feel stuck in a hard time, jump-start a pro-change attitude by letting go of possessions that no longer work for you - like old clothes and old shoes. Karen Salmansohn attitudechangeclothe Change image and share on social
I'm a big believer in the power of visualizations. And so are neuroscientists. Numerous studies have proven how merely imagining positive circumstances sends blood flowing from negative brain regions to positive ones. Karen Salmansohn believerbigblood share on social
Stop allowing yourself to focus on depressing life circumstances - including focusing on being depressed about your weight. All this negative focus will only lead you to feeling bummed and wanting to pig out. Instead, consciously focus on happy life circumstances you enjoy doing, and create more of them! Karen Salmansohn allowbumcircumstance share on social
Cultivate the habit of zest. Purposefully seek out the beauty in the seemingly trivial. Especially in the trivial. The colors and shapes of the foods you eat. The shadows a vase makes on your table. The interesting faces of the people on the bus with you. Karen Salmansohn beautybuscolor share on social
When you have a 'solution thinking mindset' - and choose to focus 80% of your thoughts/words on solutions - you will not only be heading more speedily to long-term success, but you will immediately feel better in the moment. Karen Salmansohn choosefeelfocus share on social
Basically, it's in your best mental interest to release your anger so you can see the world more clearly around you and seek better solutions for finding the happy, love-filled life you desire and deserve. Karen Salmansohn angerbasicallydeserve share on social