Marriage counselors in particular all strongly recommend divorcees try to understand their role in a divorce before re-marrying. Statistics show if you re-marry before you've clearly seen things from the biter's point of view - you're re-bounded to fail again! Karen Salmansohn biterboundcounselor share on social
The best relationship is one that does not foster too much independence nor too much dependence, but exists in the healthy interdependence zone. Karen Salmansohn dependenceexistfoster Change image and share on social
When you have a 'solution thinking mindset' - and choose to focus 80% of your thoughts/words on solutions - you will not only be heading more speedily to long-term success, but you will immediately feel better in the moment. Karen Salmansohn choosefeelfocus share on social
Watching TV produces low levels of satisfaction because it doesn't challenge you. Instead, do something that raises your self-esteem. Tap into your 'signature strengths' - things you're good at or passionate about. Karen Salmansohn challengeesteemgood share on social
I believe a lot of what contributes to the sadness and downward-spiraling in our lives is a sense of hopelessness. We become resentful when circumstances aren't unfolding as we want, leading us to doubt whether we will ever get what we want. Karen Salmansohn circumstancecontributedoubt share on social
I'm a huge fan of meditation. I know lots of people assume meditation to be some Buddhist mumbo-jumbo, but it's been scientifically documented to create therapeutic changes in the brain. Karen Salmansohn assumebrainbuddhist Change image and share on social
Are you used to entertaining everyone with your tales of drama and conflict? Do you get attention and feel important every time you complain about how awful this man is? Stop settling for attention for the negative stuff in your life. Karen Salmansohn attentionawfulcomplain share on social
Basically, discipline, effort, patience and courage are hugely important core values for kids to grow up embracing. Karen Salmansohn basicallycorecourage Change image and share on social
Instead of asking God to remove our problems so that our lives might be happy, we must purposefully try to learn as much as we can - and thereby become happier due to our insights and growth. Karen Salmansohn duegodgrowth Change image and share on social
I believe you can never fail in life or love. You just produce results. It's up to you how you interpret those results. Karen Salmansohn failinterpretlife Change image and share on social
