Approaching 50, I am living a life that is less sunlit Waldman/Chabon than tattered Charles Bukowski. Sandra Tsing Loh approachbukowskichabon Change image and share on social
Almost 50 years old now, some 30 years after graduation, I look at my Caltech classmates and conclude that math whizzes do not take over the world. Sandra Tsing Loh caltechclassmateconclude Change image and share on social
My sister is not my mother, but more than anyone else, she fills that role for me now - like it or not. And indeed, all women I know play that role for somebody - like it or not. Sandra Tsing Loh fillmotherplay Change image and share on social
The problem is that, partly because we are women, a large measure of our happiness depends on our relationships - including, unavoidably, our relationships with men. Sandra Tsing Loh dependhappinessinclude Change image and share on social
I am stricken with the peculiar curse of being a 21st-century woman who makes more than the man she's living with - first with a husband for 13 years and now with a new partner. Sandra Tsing Loh 21stcenturycurse Change image and share on social
I cohabited for 20 years with my longtime husband and father of my two now-teen daughters in a stable family household. Sandra Tsing Loh cohabitdaughterfamily Change image and share on social
Things need shaking up when American women feel endangered even as Yosemite bears lumber around belching, their eyes glazed with surfeit, their pelts covered in Oreo crumbs. Sandra Tsing Loh americanbearbelch Change image and share on social
Oddly, in this age of the blinding white Oprah pantsuit, when everything is illuminated, it seems a Victorian lace curtain still hangs over the delicate womanly matter of our personal expenditures. Sandra Tsing Loh ageblindcurtain Change image and share on social
Life at the top may be privileged, but it is not simple. Sandra Tsing Loh lifeprivilegesimple Change image and share on social
It is during fertility that a female loses herself and enters that cloud overly rich in estrogen. Sandra Tsing Loh cloudenterestrogen Change image and share on social