The literature of menopause is the saddest, the most awful, and the most medical of all genres. You're sleepless, you're anxious, you're fat, you're depressed - and the advice is always the same: take more walks, eat some kale, and drink lots of water. It didn't help. Sandra Tsing Loh adviceanxiousawful share on social
Approaching 50, I am living a life that is less sunlit Waldman/Chabon than tattered Charles Bukowski. Sandra Tsing Loh approachbukowskichabon Change image and share on social
My sister is not my mother, but more than anyone else, she fills that role for me now - like it or not. And indeed, all women I know play that role for somebody - like it or not. Sandra Tsing Loh fillmotherplay Change image and share on social
The problem is that, partly because we are women, a large measure of our happiness depends on our relationships - including, unavoidably, our relationships with men. Sandra Tsing Loh dependhappinessinclude Change image and share on social
I am stricken with the peculiar curse of being a 21st-century woman who makes more than the man she's living with - first with a husband for 13 years and now with a new partner. Sandra Tsing Loh 21stcenturycurse Change image and share on social
Things need shaking up when American women feel endangered even as Yosemite bears lumber around belching, their eyes glazed with surfeit, their pelts covered in Oreo crumbs. Sandra Tsing Loh americanbearbelch Change image and share on social
Life at the top may be privileged, but it is not simple. Sandra Tsing Loh lifeprivilegesimple Change image and share on social
The bad news in our most cosmopolitan and vibrant cities is that many middle-class people can no longer afford to live in 'middle-class' school districts. Sandra Tsing Loh affordbadcity Change image and share on social
The terror of the ordinary is what keeps many affluent, educated parents and their kids out of the merely 'decent' schools, the ones that are simply 'fine.' Sandra Tsing Loh affluentdecenteducate Change image and share on social
I cohabited for 20 years with my longtime husband and father of my two now-teen daughters in a stable family household. Sandra Tsing Loh cohabitdaughterfamily Change image and share on social
