In our 20s, women in my generation, we all wanted to be Laurie Anderson. Sandra Tsing Loh 20sandersongeneration Change image and share on social
In twenty-first-century America, our stories have become one and the same: we work to consume, we live to consume, we are what we consume. Sandra Tsing Loh americacenturyconsume Change image and share on social
Some of us stay married because we're in competition with our divorcing 1960s and 1970s parents, who made such a hash of it. What looks appealing to us now, in an increasingly frenetic, digital world, is the 1950s marriage. Sandra Tsing Loh 1950s1960s1970s share on social
I agree that mommy wars are not good for any mothers: that such wars are time and effort wasted. Sandra Tsing Loh agreeeffortgood Change image and share on social
We women make the lion's share of household purchases in this country. We ourselves drive billions of dollars a year in sales. Sandra Tsing Loh billioncountrydollar Change image and share on social
Although my life is far from perfect, the irony is that in a divorced parent's custody schedule - with days on and days off - instead of like it was before, when I felt ragged and still oddly guilty all the time, now I feel guilty but not ragged. Sandra Tsing Loh custodydaydivorce share on social
I'd be lying if I claimed that, in spite of our amiable afternoons, I don't have an ache somewhere in my heart that my children will not be playing Carnegie Hall anytime soon. Sandra Tsing Loh acheafternoonamiable Change image and share on social
In Los Angeles, we've seen a phenomenon where a school will go from one that no one will go to, to within three years becoming the 'hot' school. I've seen this over and over again. Sandra Tsing Loh angeleshavehot Change image and share on social
I think live music is really, really important. And I think it's very important to do together. It's much more fun to play to music together than the one person listening to their lone iPod Shuffle. I think it's an amazing way to build community and have children do things that are funded that's not a videogame. Sandra Tsing Loh amazebuildchild share on social
I cohabited for 20 years with my longtime husband and father of my two now-teen daughters in a stable family household. Sandra Tsing Loh cohabitdaughterfamily Change image and share on social