In my case, when it arrived at 49, perimenopause was terrifying and like nothing I had ever before physically experienced. Sandra Tsing Loh arrivecaseexperience Change image and share on social
Whether you wish to chant 'Our houses, our selves' or 'We have houses, hear us roar,' for us women, home is where the heart is. Sandra Tsing Loh chanthearheart Change image and share on social
Journalists are quite surprised outside their dinner parties when they hear where I live. 'Van Nuys? You still live there?' It is like saying you're from Alabama. Sandra Tsing Loh alabamadinnerhear Change image and share on social
Although my life is far from perfect, the irony is that in a divorced parent's custody schedule - with days on and days off - instead of like it was before, when I felt ragged and still oddly guilty all the time, now I feel guilty but not ragged. Sandra Tsing Loh custodydaydivorce share on social
The very success of the modern American family - where kids get punctually to SAT-tutoring classes, the mortgage gets paid, the second-story remodel stays on budget - surely depends on spouses' not being in love. Sandra Tsing Loh americanbudgetclass share on social
Almost 50 years old now, some 30 years after graduation, I look at my Caltech classmates and conclude that math whizzes do not take over the world. Sandra Tsing Loh caltechclassmateconclude Change image and share on social
In 1900, the average life expectancy of a US citizen was 48, so most menopausal women were dead, which is not a great place to be. Sandra Tsing Loh averagecitizendead Change image and share on social
I think private school is much better at customer service and making the parents feel better, especially in Los Angeles. It's almost like a spa for the parents where you drop your kids off, where they give you a beautifully baked thing and let the parents write their own newsletter about global warming. Sandra Tsing Loh angelesbakebeautifully share on social
In our 20s, women in my generation, we all wanted to be Laurie Anderson. Sandra Tsing Loh 20sandersongeneration Change image and share on social
It is during fertility that a female loses herself and enters that cloud overly rich in estrogen. Sandra Tsing Loh cloudenterestrogen Change image and share on social