I am a longtime, rabid fan of Jonathan Kozol. Sandra Tsing Loh fanjonathankozol Change image and share on social
Many men today can cook, or at least order takeout, and know where and how to hire domestic help, perhaps with refreshing clarity and less anxiety than ever-conflicted mothers. Sandra Tsing Loh anxietyclarityconflict Change image and share on social
In my case, when it arrived at 49, perimenopause was terrifying and like nothing I had ever before physically experienced. Sandra Tsing Loh arrivecaseexperience Change image and share on social
The literature of menopause is the saddest, the most awful, and the most medical of all genres. You're sleepless, you're anxious, you're fat, you're depressed - and the advice is always the same: take more walks, eat some kale, and drink lots of water. It didn't help. Sandra Tsing Loh adviceanxiousawful share on social
The very success of the modern American family - where kids get punctually to SAT-tutoring classes, the mortgage gets paid, the second-story remodel stays on budget - surely depends on spouses' not being in love. Sandra Tsing Loh americanbudgetclass share on social
My generation is so used to having our public spaces look like the Starbucks, with the beautiful lighting and the little bit of Nina Simone and my coffee that's blended a certain way from Costa Rica. Sandra Tsing Loh beautifulbiteblend Change image and share on social
The problem is that, partly because we are women, a large measure of our happiness depends on our relationships - including, unavoidably, our relationships with men. Sandra Tsing Loh dependhappinessinclude Change image and share on social
Some of us stay married because we're in competition with our divorcing 1960s and 1970s parents, who made such a hash of it. What looks appealing to us now, in an increasingly frenetic, digital world, is the 1950s marriage. Sandra Tsing Loh 1950s1960s1970s share on social
In twenty-first-century America, our stories have become one and the same: we work to consume, we live to consume, we are what we consume. Sandra Tsing Loh americacenturyconsume Change image and share on social
I cohabited for 20 years with my longtime husband and father of my two now-teen daughters in a stable family household. Sandra Tsing Loh cohabitdaughterfamily Change image and share on social
