The only purpose of an engagement ring is to show you 'belong' to someone, and your man makes bank. Jessica Valenti bankbelongengagement Change image and share on social
How insulting is it to suggest the best thing women can do is raise other people to do incredible things? Jessica Valenti incredibleinsultpeople Change image and share on social
I hope that by modeling feminism in my own life, work and relationships that it will haut become an organic part of my daughter's life. But I'm also fully prepared for her to become a Republican as a way to rebel as a teenager - that would be just my luck! Jessica Valenti daughterfeminismfully share on social
Child-rearing can be a tedious and thankless undertaking. Jessica Valenti childreartedious Change image and share on social
The implications of likability are long-lasting and serious. Women adjust their behavior to be likable and as a result have less power in the world. And this desire to be liked and accepted goes beyond the boardroom - it's an issue that comes up for women in their personal lives as well, especially as they become more opinionated and outspoken. Jessica Valenti acceptadjustbehavior share on social
There's no one right way to parent, and there's no magic combination of genders that produces the most well-adjusted child. We all do the best we can at loving our kids and building our families. Jessica Valenti adjustbuildchild Change image and share on social
Social media is not just another way to connect feminist and activist voices - it amplifies our messages as well. Jessica Valenti activistamplifyconnect Change image and share on social
The truth is that we don't need everyone to like us; we need a few people to love us. Because what's better than being roundly liked is being fully known - an impossibility both professionally and personally if you're so busy being likable that you forget to be yourself. Jessica Valenti busyforgetfully share on social
It's not always easy being a full-time feminist - especially as a young woman - when you're constantly being told that what you do is irrelevant. I'm on the defense all the time. Jessica Valenti constantlydefenseeasy Change image and share on social
My problem with the wedding industry started when I studied in college and liked to have the television on in the background, and 'A Wedding Story' on TLC always came on, and I'd get irritated that the story of two people making a lifelong commitment to each other could be encapsulated in a half-hour show about the party they throw. Jessica Valenti backgroundcollegecommitment share on social