When you ask most American parents why they want to have kids, it's to bring more joy into their lives. So, when you don't feel that all-encompassing joy, it must be that something is wrong with you. I think it's dissatisfaction that the expectation was different than the reality. Jessica Valenti americanbringdissatisfaction share on social
The widely held belief that the heterosexual nuclear family is best for children has long been used as a smoke screen for homophobia and as a talking point to quash marriage-equality efforts. Jessica Valenti beliefchildeffort Change image and share on social
Wedding fever is one of the scariest diseases I have ever seen. Jessica Valenti diseasefeverscary Change image and share on social
I revisit old favorites like 'Buffy' and 'Battlestar Galactica' when I'm bored. I am obsessed with 'Scandal.' I love TV. Jessica Valenti battlestarborebuffy Change image and share on social
There is something to be said for the power of figureheads. After Hillary Clinton became secretary of state, a record number of countries posted female ambassadors to the U.S. - some of whom have dubbed this 'the Hillary effect.' Jessica Valenti ambassadorclintoncountry share on social
The implications of likability are long-lasting and serious. Women adjust their behavior to be likable and as a result have less power in the world. And this desire to be liked and accepted goes beyond the boardroom - it's an issue that comes up for women in their personal lives as well, especially as they become more opinionated and outspoken. Jessica Valenti acceptadjustbehavior share on social
Hearing the Beastie Boys speak out against sexism made me feel like if these men who had once sung about getting girls to 'do the laundry' and 'clean up my room' could understand, maybe the rest of the world would follow suit. It made me hopeful in the best way. Jessica Valenti beastieboyclean share on social
As a kid, I wasn't sure that I would ever get married - I was not the kind of little girl who played at being a bride. Jessica Valenti bridegirlkid Change image and share on social
Child-rearing can be a tedious and thankless undertaking. Jessica Valenti childreartedious Change image and share on social
In 'The Purity Myth,' I not only discuss what the purity myth is and reveal its consequences for women, but also outline a new way for us to think about young women as moral actors, one that doesn't include their bodies. Jessica Valenti actorbodyconsequence share on social