If feminism wasn't powerful, if feminism wasn't influential, people wouldn't spend so much time putting it down. Jessica Valenti feminisminfluentialpeople Change image and share on social
One of the difficult things, especially about blogging, is that you put all of your personal out there, into the political. And what's been difficult, for me at least, is trying to keep some of the personal for myself. Jessica Valenti bloggingdifficultpersonal share on social
You come to a point where you give up on holding yourself to a perfect feminist ideal - it just feels stifling. Jessica Valenti feltfeministgive Change image and share on social
As I grew up and began identifying myself as a feminist, there were plenty of issues that continued to make me question marriage: the father 'giving' the bride away, women taking their husband's last name, the white dress, the vows promising to 'obey' the groom. And that only covers the wedding. Jessica Valenti beginbridecontinue share on social
When you ask most American parents why they want to have kids, it's to bring more joy into their lives. So, when you don't feel that all-encompassing joy, it must be that something is wrong with you. I think it's dissatisfaction that the expectation was different than the reality. Jessica Valenti americanbringdissatisfaction share on social
Wedding fever is one of the scariest diseases I have ever seen. Jessica Valenti diseasefeverscary Change image and share on social
Even the notion that women should have children at all is based on the idea that a woman's inherent and most important role is that of mother. Shockingly, men's 'innate' roles are a lot more fun than the ones bestowed on women. Jessica Valenti basebestowchild share on social
There is no public space for women; the whole world is a prison where you have to be constantly aware at all times that you're a potential victim. What's more terrifying is that it's not necessarily preventative. Jessica Valenti awareconstantlynecessarily share on social
Bra-burning never happened. It was completely made up by the media. A couple of women protesting a Miss America pageant threw some bras into a garbage can, and somehow that became this longstanding idea of feminists as bra-burners. Jessica Valenti americabraburn share on social
There is something to be said for the power of figureheads. After Hillary Clinton became secretary of state, a record number of countries posted female ambassadors to the U.S. - some of whom have dubbed this 'the Hillary effect.' Jessica Valenti ambassadorclintoncountry share on social