The cultural expectation should be if there's infidelity, the marriage is more important than fidelity. Dan Savage culturalexpectationfidelity Change image and share on social
School is very conformist, and one of the very first conforming that goes on in preschool and kindergarten is gender. Dan Savage conformconformistgender Change image and share on social
I'm allergic to dogs, so I couldn't even adopt what gay men typically adopt when they have that maternal gene. Dan Savage adoptallergicdog Change image and share on social
I didn't want kids to think that to be happy, they had to be famous or rich or live in the big city. Dan Savage bigcityfamous Change image and share on social
I get letters every year from women who think Valentine's Day is an empty exercise, but are ironically pretty exercised when their boyfriends neglect or forget it. Dan Savage boyfrienddayempty Change image and share on social
To be gay is nothing to be proud of. It's in how you are gay that you have something to be proud of, considering the obstacles placed in your path if you are gay. Dan Savage gayobstaclepath Change image and share on social
Ultimately life is disease, death and oblivion. It's still better than high school. Dan Savage deathdiseasehigh Change image and share on social
My dad was a homicide cop in the gay neighborhood in the city when gay neighborhoods were desperate, depressing, sad places run by the mob. The only gay people he'd met when I came out to him were corpses. Dan Savage citycopcorpse share on social
Like it or not children are being raised by gay and lesbian parents all over America - as many as 10 million children. And it does nothing to make their lives more stable and secure to attack their families, to attack their parents to prevent us from marrying each other. Dan Savage americaattackchild share on social
