I don't think it's the responsibility of gays and lesbians to reinvent the family. Dan Savage familygaylesbian Change image and share on social
I believe it's in the best interests of a child to be in a stable environment. Dan Savage childenvironmentinterest Change image and share on social
Children have a right to some stability and constancy from the adults in their lives. Dan Savage adultchildconstancy Change image and share on social
I think the best thing for you to do is just live your life. Live a life that's worth living, one where you do what you want to do, pursue your passions. That way, if you meet someone, they'll be joining a life that's already really good. Dan Savage goodjoinlife share on social
The bullied straight kid goes home to a shoulder to cry on and support and can talk freely about his experience at school and why he's being bullied. I couldn't go home and open up to my parents. Dan Savage bullycryexperience Change image and share on social
I don't write about my life in my column. Dan Savage columnlifewrite Change image and share on social
Actual gay people can make many others feel uncomfortable and paranoid because they don't know and can't articulate what makes a person gay, and they worry that maybe they themselves are gay. Dan Savage actualarticulatefeel Change image and share on social
Really, when it comes to gay rights, there's two wars going on. The first war is political. But the culture war is over. Dan Savage culturegaypolitical Change image and share on social
When I was in high school I got involved in the fringe theater scene in Chicago, and I met some openly gay people. I could see that it got better, that they were happy and loved and supported. I saw with my own eyes that it got better. Dan Savage chicagoeyefringe share on social
A huge part of what animates homophobia among young people is paranoia and fear of their own capacity to be gay themselves. Dan Savage animatecapacityfear Change image and share on social