I think the best thing for you to do is just live your life. Live a life that's worth living, one where you do what you want to do, pursue your passions. That way, if you meet someone, they'll be joining a life that's already really good. Dan Savage goodjoinlife share on social
Books are magic: you never know where they're going to end up. Dan Savage bookendmagic Change image and share on social
If what you want is a life where your homosexuality is not an issue, move, as many have done. Dan Savage homosexualityissuelife Change image and share on social
The mistake that straight people made was imposing the monogamous expectation on men. Men were never expected to be monogamous. Dan Savage expectexpectationimpose Change image and share on social
When I was a kid, and I was odd, the default assumption was that I was odd, not that I was gay. Now when a kid is odd in a Greensburg, gay or straight, the default assumption is gay. Dan Savage assumptiondefaultgay Change image and share on social
When you're young and queer and closeted, you can end up in this place where you regard your straight peers as the enemy. Dan Savage closetendenemy Change image and share on social
Actual gay people can make many others feel uncomfortable and paranoid because they don't know and can't articulate what makes a person gay, and they worry that maybe they themselves are gay. Dan Savage actualarticulatefeel Change image and share on social
But it doesn't matter what you're doing, it matters how you're doing it. Dan Savage matter Change image and share on social
Every question is a hypothetical question for everyone but the person who asks it. Dan Savage askhypotheticalperson Change image and share on social
