I think the best thing for you to do is just live your life. Live a life that's worth living, one where you do what you want to do, pursue your passions. That way, if you meet someone, they'll be joining a life that's already really good. Dan Savage goodjoinlife share on social
When I was a kid, and I was odd, the default assumption was that I was odd, not that I was gay. Now when a kid is odd in a Greensburg, gay or straight, the default assumption is gay. Dan Savage assumptiondefaultgay Change image and share on social
I got picked on a lot, even by teachers too. I liked to listen to musicals and bake, and my homeroom teacher found out and mocked me in front of the whole class for baking. Dan Savage bakeclassfind Change image and share on social
When you're young and queer and closeted, you can end up in this place where you regard your straight peers as the enemy. Dan Savage closetendenemy Change image and share on social
School is very conformist, and one of the very first conforming that goes on in preschool and kindergarten is gender. Dan Savage conformconformistgender Change image and share on social
Actual gay people can make many others feel uncomfortable and paranoid because they don't know and can't articulate what makes a person gay, and they worry that maybe they themselves are gay. Dan Savage actualarticulatefeel Change image and share on social
But it doesn't matter what you're doing, it matters how you're doing it. Dan Savage matter Change image and share on social
Every question is a hypothetical question for everyone but the person who asks it. Dan Savage askhypotheticalperson Change image and share on social
