Your tendency to be inward-directed or outward-directed is huge; it governs every part of the way you live and work and love. Susan Cain directgovernhuge Change image and share on social
Most people who have grown up introverted in this very extroverted culture of ours have had painful experiences of feeling like they are out of step with what's expected of them. Parenting can pose unique challenges for introverted parents, who fear that their own painful experiences will be repeated in their children's lives. Susan Cain challengechildculture share on social
In most job interviews, people say they are looking for people skills and emotional intelligence. That's reasonable, but the question is, how do you define what that looks like? Susan Cain defineemotionalintelligence Change image and share on social
I actually find extroversion to be a really appealing personality style. Susan Cain appealextroversionfind Change image and share on social
I'm insatiably curious about human nature. Susan Cain curioushumaninsatiably Change image and share on social
Men are more likely to be introverted than women are, but it's really very slight. But the real difference I think is in how it plays out, how it relates to cultural stereotypes. Susan Cain culturaldifferenceintrovert Change image and share on social
You will find this hard to believe, but I've never laughed as much as I did when I was a corporate lawyer. When you're working 16 hours a day for months at a time, you get punchy. Everything and everyone seems hilarious. Susan Cain corporatedayfind share on social
The bias against introversion leads to a colossal waste of talent, energy, and happiness. Susan Cain biascolossalenergy Change image and share on social
What's interesting is relative levels of introversion tend to stay the same. If you went back to your reunion from school, you would probably find that if you ranked everyone in your class into terms of levels of introversion and extroversion you'd still be the same rank. Susan Cain backclassextroversion share on social
Many introverts feel there's something wrong with them, and try to pass as extroverts. But whenever you try to pass as something you're not, you lose a part of yourself along the way. You especially lose a sense of how to spend your time. Susan Cain extrovertfeelintrovert share on social