I find I'm the sort of harried working mother who has difficulty scheduling in a bit of rest amid the Ptolemaically complicated interlocking gears of professional and personal life. Sandra Tsing Loh amidbitecomplicate Change image and share on social
Just because marriage didn't work for us doesn't mean we don't believe in the institution. Just because our own marital track records are mixed doesn't mean our hearts don't lift at the sight of our daughters' Tiffany-blue wedding invitations. Sandra Tsing Loh bluedaughterheart share on social
I don't know how it's going for my sisters, but as my 40s and Verizon bills and mortgage payments roll on, I seem to have an ever more recurring 1950s housewife fantasy. Sandra Tsing Loh 1950s40sbill Change image and share on social
I am shamed to realize that in my marriage, my daughters never heard their father and me fight, which also meant, perhaps, that we didn't truly communicate. Sandra Tsing Loh communicatedaughterfather Change image and share on social
It is during fertility that a female loses herself and enters that cloud overly rich in estrogen. Sandra Tsing Loh cloudenterestrogen Change image and share on social
Menopause is your return to where you were before, when your hormone levels are the same as a pre-adolescent girl's. Sandra Tsing Loh adolescentgirlhormone Change image and share on social
The paradox is, I can't miss the good things about my father while he is alive, but I will of course miss him... when he is dead. Sandra Tsing Loh alivedeadfather Change image and share on social
You go into the book store, there's the cut-out of Dr. Phil, and then the dreaded women's health section where every book, instead of the menopause book with the fanged Medusa head on the cover that might be more pertinent, you always see a flower and a poppy and a daisy and a stethoscope. Sandra Tsing Loh bookcovercut share on social
I eye 'Modern Love' warily between that second and third cup of coffee on Sunday mornings, calculating how much of a push I need to get through the day's unhurriedly earnest saga of heartbreak and recovery. Sandra Tsing Loh calculatecoffeecup share on social
There's an image that some of us have of Jackie Onassis, stepping out in the rain, and Maurice Tempelsman is holding her umbrella. We want that man. We want the man to be the concierge and the masseur and the travel booker. Sandra Tsing Loh bookerconciergehold share on social