Learn graceful ways of saying no and of pointing out that this pressure to do something is not in line with most people's wishes. Judith Martin gracefullearnline Change image and share on social
When a society abandons its ideals just because most people can't live up to them, behavior gets very ugly indeed. Judith Martin abandonbehaviorideal Change image and share on social
Most people who work at home find they do not have the benefit of receptionists who serve as personal guards. Judith Martin benefitfindguard Change image and share on social
Etiquette is all human social behavior. If you're a hermit on a mountain, you don't have to worry about etiquette; if somebody comes up the mountain, then you've got a problem. It matters because we want to live in reasonably harmonious communities. Judith Martin behaviorcommunityetiquette share on social
We're now seeing email that people thought they had deleted showing up as evidence in court. You can't erase email. As that becomes more commonly realized, people will be a little wiser about what they type. Judith Martin commonlycourtdelete share on social
Chaperons, even in their days of glory, were almost never able to enforce morality; what they did was to force immorality to be discreet. This is no small contribution. Judith Martin chaperoncontributionday Change image and share on social
My children did not go through a stage of being rude to their parents. I'm sorry if that sounds incredible. Judith Martin childincredibleparent Change image and share on social
The language of clothing is high symbolism and we all, in moments where we need to know this, realize it. Judith Martin clthehighlanguage Change image and share on social
One of the big no-nos in cyberspace is that you do not go into a social activity, a chat group or something like that, and start advertising or selling things. This etiquette rule is an attempt to separate one's social life, which should be pure enjoyment and relaxation, from the pressures of work. Judith Martin activityadvertiseattempt share on social