Indeed, Miss Manners has come to believe that the basic political division in this country is not between liberals and conservatives but between those who believe that they should have a say in the love lives of strangers and those who do not. Judith Martin basicconservativecountry share on social
The greater the controversy, the more you need manners. Judith Martin controversygreatmanner Change image and share on social
For email, the old postcard rule applies. Nobody else is supposed to read your postcards, but you'd be a fool if you wrote anything private on one. Judith Martin applyemailfool Change image and share on social
You do not have to do everything disagreeable that you have a right to do. Judith Martin disagreeable Change image and share on social
We are born charming, fresh and spontaneous and must be civilized before we are fit to participate in society. Judith Martin bearcharmcivilize Change image and share on social
Being polite does not mean being mummified. Judith Martin mummifypolite Change image and share on social
We already know that anonymous letters are despicable. In etiquette, as well as in law, hiring a hit man to do the job does not relieve you of responsibility. Judith Martin anonymousdespicableetiquette Change image and share on social
One of the big no-nos in cyberspace is that you do not go into a social activity, a chat group or something like that, and start advertising or selling things. This etiquette rule is an attempt to separate one's social life, which should be pure enjoyment and relaxation, from the pressures of work. Judith Martin activityadvertiseattempt share on social
Freedom without rules doesn't work. And communities do not work unless they are regulated by etiquette. Judith Martin communityetiquettefreedom Change image and share on social
It's far more impressive when others discover your good qualities without your help. Judith Martin discovergoodimpressive Change image and share on social