For email, the old postcard rule applies. Nobody else is supposed to read your postcards, but you'd be a fool if you wrote anything private on one. Judith Martin applyemailfool Change image and share on social
You do not have to do everything disagreeable that you have a right to do. Judith Martin disagreeable Change image and share on social
We are born charming, fresh and spontaneous and must be civilized before we are fit to participate in society. Judith Martin bearcharmcivilize Change image and share on social
Being polite does not mean being mummified. Judith Martin mummifypolite Change image and share on social
I am a traditionalist, and I'm an innovator. Most of what I do is to weigh change and legislate to the best of my ability on what should change and what should not. Do I have a respect for tradition? Of course I do. Do I have a blind belief in it? No. Judith Martin abilitybeliefblind share on social
One of the big no-nos in cyberspace is that you do not go into a social activity, a chat group or something like that, and start advertising or selling things. This etiquette rule is an attempt to separate one's social life, which should be pure enjoyment and relaxation, from the pressures of work. Judith Martin activityadvertiseattempt share on social
There are three social classes in America: upper middle class, middle class, and lower middle class. Judith Martin americaclasslow Change image and share on social
Freedom without rules doesn't work. And communities do not work unless they are regulated by etiquette. Judith Martin communityetiquettefreedom Change image and share on social
Obviously I'm going to be polite, so nobody has anything to fear from me. Judith Martin fearpolite Change image and share on social
Parents should conduct their arguments in quiet, respectful tones, but in a foreign language. You'd be surprised what an inducement that is to the education of children. Judith Martin argumentchildconduct Change image and share on social