Indeed, Miss Manners has come to believe that the basic political division in this country is not between liberals and conservatives but between those who believe that they should have a say in the love lives of strangers and those who do not. Judith Martin basicconservativecountry share on social
Freedom without rules doesn't work. And communities do not work unless they are regulated by etiquette. Judith Martin communityetiquettefreedom Change image and share on social
Over the last couple of decades, the personalization of the office changed dramatically... there's an informality people often take for the absence of rules - which it's not. Judith Martin absencechangecouple Change image and share on social
When people start hurling insults at you, you know their minds are closed and there's no point in debating. You disengage yourself as quickly as possible from the situation. Judith Martin closedebatedisengage Change image and share on social
You glance at an e-mail. You give more attention to a real letter. Judith Martin attentiongiveglance Change image and share on social
Honesty has come to mean the privilege of insulting you to your face without expecting redress. Judith Martin expectfacehonesty Change image and share on social
Email is very informal, a memo. But I find that not signing off or not having a salutation bothers me. Judith Martin botheremailfind Change image and share on social
Many people mistakenly think a new technology cancels out an old one. Judith Martin cancelmistakenlypeople Change image and share on social
One of the big no-nos in cyberspace is that you do not go into a social activity, a chat group or something like that, and start advertising or selling things. This etiquette rule is an attempt to separate one's social life, which should be pure enjoyment and relaxation, from the pressures of work. Judith Martin activityadvertiseattempt share on social