I see my upbringing as a great success story. By disciplining me, my parents inculcated self-discipline. And by restricting my choices as a child, they gave me so many choices in my life as an adult. Because of what they did then, I get to do the work I love now. Amy Chua adultchildchoice share on social
It may be the optimist in me, but I think America has a uniquely powerful and capacious glue internally. The American identity has always been ethnically and religiously neutral, so within one generation you have Italian-Americans, Irish-Americans, Chinese-Americans, Jamaican-Americans - they feel American. It's a huge success story. Amy Chua americaamericancapacious share on social
Once you get to the Enlightenment, the way that powers get to be hyperpowers isn't just by conquest. It's through commerce and innovation. Societies like the Dutch Republic and the United States used tolerance to become a magnet for enterprising immigrants. Amy Chua commerceconquestdutch share on social
Some people are just self-motivated - my husband was. I also believe there are many children for whom parental involvement is key. Amy Chua childhusbandinvolvement Change image and share on social
My children grew up with one Western parent. My husband doesn't believe in raising his voice with the kids and we don't spank. They were really raised in a half-Asian family. Amy Chua asianchildfamily Change image and share on social
You can't invent Google, Facebook or the iPod unless you've mastered the basics, are willing to put in long hours and can pick yourself up from the floor when life knocks you down the first 10 times. Amy Chua basicfacebookfloor Change image and share on social
When my children were young, I was very cocky. I thought I could maintain total control. Amy Chua childcockycontrol Change image and share on social
I was raised, myself, by extremely strict but also extremely loving Chinese immigrant parents. To this day, I believe that their having high expectations for me, coupled with love, was the greatest gift that anyone's ever given me. And so that's why, even though my husband is not Chinese, I try to raise my own two daughters the same way. Amy Chua chinesecoupledaughter share on social
Everything I do as a mother builds on a foundation of love and compassion. Amy Chua buildcompassionfoundation Change image and share on social
I worry that by losing my temper so much and being so harsh and yelling so much that, by example, I will have taught my daughters to be that way, and I'm now constantly telling them not to do that. Amy Chua constantlydaughterharsh Change image and share on social