2014 was a year of intense social upheaval. In truth, the same could be said for most every year. There is no standstill in a world filled with so many people, scrambling for so much. Roxane Gay fillintensepeople Change image and share on social
If a woman wants to take her husband's name, that's her choice, and I still think she can be feminist while doing that. Roxane Gay choicefeministhusband Change image and share on social
If you feel like it's hard to be friends with women, consider that maybe women aren't the problem. Maybe it's just you. Roxane Gay feelfriendhard Change image and share on social
Most of the serious disagreement I get comes through email or social media, where people are more comfortable. Roxane Gay comfortabledisagreementemail Change image and share on social
We cannot sway extremists with rational thought or with our ideas of right and wrong. Roxane Gay extremistidearational Change image and share on social
I recognize that I'm human, and the older I get, the more I realize how fallible I am, how fallible we all are. Roxane Gay falliblehumanold Change image and share on social
Most open letters undoubtedly come from a good place, rising out of genuine outrage or concern or care. There is, admittedly, also a smugness to most open letters: a sense that we, as the writers of such letters, know better than those to whom the letters are addressed. We will impart our opinions to you, with or without your consent. Roxane Gay addressadmittedlycare share on social
I have a job I'm pretty good at. I am in charge of things. I am on committees. People respect me and take my counsel. I want to be strong and professional, but I resent how hard I have to work to be taken seriously, to receive a fraction of the consideration I might otherwise receive. Roxane Gay chargecommitteeconsideration share on social
There has been, and there will continue to be, vigorous discussions about race in America. I worry that little will come of these discussions because we aren't addressing what must be done to change the current racial climate. Roxane Gay addressamericachange share on social
After the Boston Marathon bombings, people shared grief and outrage on social media. Roxane Gay bombingbostongrief Change image and share on social