Because it's so easy to medicate our need for self-worth by pandering to win followers, 'likes' and view counts, social media have become the metier of choice for many people who might otherwise channel that energy into books, music or art - or even into their own Web ventures. Neil Strauss artbookchannel share on social
Growing up, I was watched by my parents and strongly critiqued. Instead of saying they loved me or showing physical attention, they would joke that I had a Roman nose - that it was roamin' all over my face. Teasing was their way of showing love, but then you are young, sometimes you can't tell the difference. Neil Strauss attentioncritiquedifference share on social
I know that I need honesty from the people I interview. I also know that the truth is more interesting than made up stuff, and also, people don't connect with you if you're not honest. Neil Strauss connecthonesthonesty Change image and share on social
The good thing is that women have such high expectations of men that it inspires us to live up to them. That's what I learned about male-female relationships. Neil Strauss expectationfemalegood Change image and share on social
The trick, when you're flirting, is figuring how to keep a balance between being engaging enough to retain someone's attention and not seeming overly available. So you tease a person a little. Neil Strauss attentionbalanceengage Change image and share on social
While I am impulsive in many areas of my life, marriage is not one of them. Neil Strauss areaimpulsivelife Change image and share on social
I think there are just a million interviews in anthologies with famous musicians that are about the music, and they're really boring to read. Neil Strauss anthologyborefamous Change image and share on social
Since I was 18, I've been under orders from magazines and newspapers - chiefly The New York Times and Rolling Stone - to step into the lives of musicians, actors, and artists, and somehow find out who they really are underneath the mask they present to the public. But I didn't always succeed. Neil Strauss actorartistchiefly share on social
People don't come out for book events. They want to feel an emotion and be entertained. Neil Strauss bookemotionentertain Change image and share on social
I always wanted to interview Michael Jackson, because I just wanted to humanize him. Neil Strauss humanizeinterviewjackson Change image and share on social