Grief is characterized much more by waves of feeling that lessen and reoccur, it's less like stages and more like different states of feeling. Meghan O'Rourke characterizefeltgrief Change image and share on social
This is part of the complexity of grief: A piece of you recognizes it is an extreme state, an altered state, yet a large part of you is entirely subject to its demands. Meghan O'Rourke altercomplexitydemand Change image and share on social
Grief is at once a public and a private experience. One's inner, inexpressible disruption cannot be fully realized in one's public persona. Meghan O'Rourke disruptionexperiencefully Change image and share on social
Our minds are mysterious; our conscious brain is like a ship on a sea that is obscure to us. Meghan O'Rourke brainconsciousmind Change image and share on social
I believe in the importance of individuality, but in the midst of grief I also find myself wanting connection - wanting to be reminded that the sadness I feel is not just mine but ours. Meghan O'Rourke connectionfeelfind Change image and share on social
It's all too easy when talking about female gymnasts to fall into the trap of infantilizing them, spending more time worrying more about female vulnerability than we do celebrating female strength. Meghan O'Rourke celebrateeasyfall Change image and share on social
The truth is, I need to experience my mother's presence in the world around me and not just in my head. Meghan O'Rourke experienceheadmother Change image and share on social
Television has never known what to do with grief, which resists narrative: the dramas of grief are largely internal - for the bereaved, it is a chaotic, intense, episodic period, but the chaos is by and large subterranean, and easily appears static to the friendly onlooker who has absorbed the fact of loss and moved on. Meghan O'Rourke absorbappearbereave share on social
A mother, after all, is your entry into the world. She is the shell in which you divide and become a life. Waking up in a world without her is like waking up in a world without sky: unimaginable. Meghan O'Rourke divideentrylife Change image and share on social
There is always tension in women's gymnastics between athleticism, grace, performance, and eros. Meghan O'Rourke athleticismerograce Change image and share on social