I don't think anyone's found a way of eliminating thoughts of danger and loss. It's rather that, when they're unrealistic, you become an acrobat at marshaling evidence against them. Martin Seligman acrobatdangereliminate Change image and share on social
One of my signature strengths is the love of learning, and by teaching, I have built it into the fabric of my life. I try to do some of it every day. Martin Seligman builddayfabric Change image and share on social
Perhaps the single most robust fact across many surveys is that married people are happier than anyone else. Martin Seligman facthappymarry Change image and share on social
It used to be that whenever I introduced myself to people and told them I was a psychologist, they would shrink away from me. Because, quite rightly, the impression the American public has of psychologists is, 'You want to know what's wrong with me.' Martin Seligman americanimpressionintroduce share on social
Positive psychology is not remotely intended to replace therapy or pharmacology. So when depressed, anxious or in panic or post-traumatic stress disorder, I am all for therapies that will work. Positive psychology is another arrow in the quiver of public policy and psychology through which we can raise wellbeing above zero. Martin Seligman anxiousarrowdepress share on social
I strongly disapprove of torture and have never and would never provide assistance in its process. Martin Seligman assistancedisapproveprocess Change image and share on social
If we just wanted positive emotions, our species would have died out a long time ago. Martin Seligman agodieemotion Change image and share on social
I have spent most of my life working with mental illness. I have been president of the world's largest association of mental-illness workers, and I am all for more funding for mental-health care and research - but not in the vain hope that it will curb violence. Martin Seligman associationcarecurb share on social
Suppose you could be hooked up to a hypothetical 'experience machine' that, for the rest of your life, would stimulate your brain and give you any positive feelings you desire. Most people to whom I offer this imaginary choice refuse the machine. It is not just positive feelings we want: we want to be entitled to our positive feelings. Martin Seligman brainchoicedesire share on social
It's no surprise that optimistic athletes, managers and teams do better. What's interesting is where they do better. It's in coming back from defeat and acting in the clutch. Martin Seligman actathleteback Change image and share on social