Children are wonderful, but they are not the center of the universe. The sooner their parents make them understand that, the better off we all will be. LZ Granderson centerchildmake Change image and share on social
If children can't handle competition when it's necessary, or take some criticism, or never strive to be better because their parents inadvertently programmed them to believe they are already the best even when they're not, then they are in for some serious shocks and bumps down the road. LZ Granderson bumpchildcompetition share on social
Insecurity is a natural part of human nature, and there are times we feel our stories are not worth telling, so we turn to the people we admire for strength. If we dress like someone everyone thinks is cool, perhaps we'll be seen as cool. LZ Granderson admirecooldress share on social
Accolades and lists may tell us about accomplishments, but life is meant to be experienced, not just accomplished. It's like the difference between reading books for the sake of reading and reading books just to get a good grade. LZ Granderson accoladeaccomplishaccomplishment share on social
My mother can certainly be rough around the edges at times, but she also taught me to have compassion for people who have been wronged. She taught me to empathize with those who have made mistakes. LZ Granderson compassionedgeempathize Change image and share on social
As a parent, I can empathize with how difficult raising children can be. There are challenges, especially within the framework of divorce, when parental guilt can sometimes blur what should be the best decision. LZ Granderson blurchallengechild share on social
My son was born during my last semester in college. His due date was Thanksgiving, but he didn't show up until finals week. I brought my books to the hospital and didn't think anything of it. That is what a father is supposed to do. LZ Granderson bearbookbring share on social
We're so preoccupied with protecting children from disappointment and discomfort that we're inadvertently excusing them from growing up. LZ Granderson childdisappointmentdiscomfort Change image and share on social
Heroes aren't supposed to do bad things. That's what villains are for. So either the good supersedes the bad, or the bad makes it impossible to remember the good. We don't like it when such duality exists in one person. We don't want to know our heroes are human. LZ Granderson baddualityexist share on social
The ugly truth is it's the spineless parents who parade their undisciplined children around like royalty that make people dislike kids. LZ Granderson childdislikekid Change image and share on social