Sometimes, just the act of venting is helpful. Counseling provides a safe haven for precisely that kind of free-ranging release: You can say things in the therapist's office, with the therapist present, that would be incendiary or hurtful in your living room. Laura Wasser actcounselingfree share on social
You don't want to move in with someone and find out that they don't have auto or health insurance. That's a rude awakening. Laura Wasser autoawakenfind Change image and share on social
Like the marriage contract you entered into, your divorce is a legal transaction. Treat it that way. Try not to let emotion, hurt, fear or anger dictate the circumstances of your discussions or negotiations. Laura Wasser angercircumstancecontract share on social
One client's wife managed to steam the labels off all of the several hundred bottles in her husband's prestigious wine collection, so the collection was worthless. The husband hosted 'What's that wine?' dinner parties. Laura Wasser bottleclientcollection share on social
To find a pool of lawyers from whom to choose, solicit referrals from other professionals you know or deal with - an accountant, banker or business leader. Check out Bar Association listings as well, and don't neglect Internet research. Laura Wasser accountantassociationbanker share on social
Just as you go to the gym regularly to keep your body fit, regular couples counseling can keep your relationship fit as well. Laura Wasser bodycounselingcouple Change image and share on social
Just about every therapist or counselor or social worker is practiced in dealing with people going through failing relationships, ending them, and confronting issues of custody and support. Laura Wasser confrontcounselorcustody Change image and share on social
Evening bags should be just big enough for my phone, lipstick, house key, and credit card. Laura Wasser bagbigcard Change image and share on social
In seeking a lawyer, you are looking for an advocate, an expert advisor on the law and on your rights and responsibilities, a strategist, a negotiator, and a litigator. Laura Wasser advisoradvocateexpert Change image and share on social
Do I believe in coupling? Do I believe in commitment? Do I believe in co-parenting, raising children together, having a family, and growing old with someone? I absolutely believe in all of those things. I just don't believe that you need to be married to do that. I love going to weddings, though. I do love a good wedding. Laura Wasser absolutelychildcommitment share on social