Since I've quit drinking, I'm not sure I've found the good life, but I've certainly uncovered a better one. Koren Zailckas drinkfindgood Change image and share on social
America, ever the narcissistic mother, prefers baby bumps to children and expectant mothers to full-fledged bum-and-nose-wiping ones. Koren Zailckas americababybum Change image and share on social
Having a child doesn't make a woman a mother any more than owning a paintbrush makes her Frida Kahlo. Koren Zailckas childfridakahlo Change image and share on social
What makes a narcissistic mother so scary? Her absolute power and controlling influence. A narcissistic mother is your only 'friend,' at least until you're old enough to go to school. Koren Zailckas absolutecontrolfriend Change image and share on social
I do think anger is so difficult for women. Girls think it undermines their femininity; it's not very ladylike. Koren Zailckas angerdifficultfemininity Change image and share on social
Reading Poe was like a near-death experience, the kind that makes you feel fragile and free in its wake. I felt almost as though I'd scared myself alive. Koren Zailckas alivedeathexperience Change image and share on social
I think what I learned in research is that as Americans, we're very distrustful of anger. We're not sure if we should repress it. The idea that anger is supposed to be controlled is American, and we try to keep it out of our homes. Koren Zailckas americanangercontrol share on social
I have been a ballerina, a cheerleader and a sorority girl. I was the girliest girl alive. Koren Zailckas aliveballerinacheerleader Change image and share on social
My short stature may have something to do with my tendency to shout when enraged. How else is anyone going to hear me way down here? Koren Zailckas enragehearshort Change image and share on social
I grew up in a family that despised displays of strong emotion, rage in particular. We stewed. We sulked. When arguments did occur, they were full-scale conniptions, and we regarded them as family failings. Afterward, we withdrew from one another and tried our best to strike the event from our memories. Koren Zailckas afterwardargumentconniption share on social