You sit at your computer for hours, then slave away at your job that you may or may not like. You don't know how to explain to them that the time when you feel alive or present is when you are writing. Karen Bender alivecomputerexplain share on social
It's great being married to a writer. You live with someone who can read your work and help you. Karen Bender greatlivemarry Change image and share on social
The word inventors have to create a new term to describe how I felt when I learned that 'Refund' was on the shortlist for the Frank O'Connor International Story prize - Excited, thrilled, honored, none of them quite do it. Karen Bender connorcreatedescribe share on social
When I wrote my stories in elementary school, I signed them all 'Karen E. Bender' with the squiggly 'E.' I wanted, from an early age, to be a writer, and that name - that E - was a way of pretending I knew how to do it. Karen Bender agebenderearly share on social
Don't go into any store that features shopping bags that can stand on their own accord in the middle of a table. This sort of shopping bag denotes prices that will start chipping into your children's college education fund. Avoid it. Karen Bender accordavoidbag share on social
When I was 19 and dropped out of college for several months, I lived for some time with my grandmother. Karen Bender collegedropgrandmother Change image and share on social
Don't monitor your online savings account in real time. Karen Bender accountmonitoronline Change image and share on social
Write a story a great writer would write. Because part of becoming an artist is pushing through all the disbelief of those around you, deciding that you are a writer when you have no idea what a plot is or whether what you've written is any good, or anything. Karen Bender artistdecidedisbelief share on social
Writing about a person whose struggle you wish you could solve is an act of compassion and also, frankly, opportunism. Karen Bender actcompassionfrankly Change image and share on social
Tell your mother that any clothes she wants to purchase you as a gift has to be suitable for a job interview. Karen Bender clothegiftinterview Change image and share on social