My students often say, 'My roommate read this story and really liked it,' and it's hard to convince them that there are things wrong with it. I say, 'Well, people who love you want you to be happy. But I'm your professor and I'm supposed to be teaching you something.' Joyce Carol Oates convincehappyhard share on social
A lot of widows feel that they have betrayed their spouse by continuing to live. It's deranged thinking. I know that, but that doesn't stop you feeling it. Joyce Carol Oates betraycontinuederange Change image and share on social
The historical Woodrow Wilson suffered from numerous complaints which we might today label as psychosomatic. Yet, Wilson did have a stroke as a relatively young man of 39 and seemed always to be ill. He was 'high-strung' - intensely neurotic - yet a charismatic personality nonetheless. Joyce Carol Oates charismaticcomplainthigh share on social
I am not conscious of working especially hard, or of 'working' at all. Writing and teaching have always been, for me, so richly rewarding that I don't think of them as work in the usual sense of the word. Joyce Carol Oates conscioushardreward share on social
Where we come from in America no longer signifies. It's where we go, and what we do when we get there, that tells us who we are. Joyce Carol Oates americalongsignify Change image and share on social
I compose most of my tweets with care, as if they were aphorisms - they are not usually dashed-off. Sometimes I'm surprised by the high, poetic quality of Twitter - it lends itself to a surreal sort of self-expression. Joyce Carol Oates aphorismcarecompose share on social
I don't know what marriages are like in general, but there are many things which I don't talk about with my husband. We discuss practical problems, but I wouldn't sit down with him and talk about the distant past. It's somewhat in contrast to other Americans, who feel that they have to confess things, but I'm really not like that. Joyce Carol Oates americanconfesscontrast share on social
Honorary degrees and lifetime achievement awards are very encouraging. I know that it might sound strange that a writer who has published many books still needs encouragement, but this is true. Joyce Carol Oates achievementawardbook Change image and share on social
Like most people, I can be very easily hurt. Joyce Carol Oates easilyhurtpeople Change image and share on social
If I'm writing, I'll say something metaphorical or approximate, whereas scientists are very precise. Joyce Carol Oates approximatemetaphoricalprecise Change image and share on social