Somewhere, sometime I'd stopped expecting my father to father. Andre Dubus III expectfatherstop Change image and share on social
Shyness has a strange element of narcissism, a belief that how we look, how we perform, is truly important to other people. Andre Dubus III beliefelementimportant Change image and share on social
I was always a sensitive, sweet kid, but I got brutalized and I became brutal. And frankly, I don't think it was my natural makeup. I don't think its anyone's natural makeup to be a violent brawler. Andre Dubus III brawlerbrutalbrutalize Change image and share on social
My dad and mom divorced when I was around ten, and I didn't live with him after that, though he was close by and we saw each other weekly. I wasn't really aware that he was a writer; I didn't start reading his writing until I was about fifteen. It occurred to me then that my dad was kind of special; he's still one of my favorite writers. Andre Dubus III awareclosedad share on social
I work out four days a week in the off-season, and in the warm, running weather months, I do five days. A push/pull regime of weightlifting, cycling, and the occasional Saturday or Sunday run with my oldest son, even if it's cold out. Andre Dubus III coldcycleday share on social
I feel that writers think with their noses to the ground, and the dark stuff kind of comes to me more, even though I really am sort of an upbeat guy. It's an honest descent into darkness. And you can't have the joy without the grief - it's why we listen to Mozart's 'Requiem.' Andre Dubus III darkdarknessdescent share on social
I've had a lot of glamour come my way in the last 10 years - you know, movie stars and mansions and red carpets and trips to Europe and crazy stuff I never would have imagined - and I look at them as if I'm the bartender in the corner of the room. They've never gone into my psyche. I look at them with distance, and wonder. Andre Dubus III bartendercarpetcorner share on social
I truly believe the art's larger than the artist. Who cares about John Steinbeck? I care about the Joad family. Andre Dubus III artartistcare Change image and share on social
I'm one of those writers who can't talk about what they're working on. The entire four years I was writing 'House of Sand and Fog,' my wife never saw a word of it. I just have to keep it in the womb, and then everyone can have a crack at it. Andre Dubus III crackentirefog share on social
One of the accidental joys of my writing life has been that I've had some lovely, surprisingly good fortune with readers, and I've brought readers to my dad's work. I can't tell you the joy that gives me. Because my father's work was masterful. Andre Dubus III accidentalbringdad share on social