Don't ever dare to take your college as a matter of course - because, like democracy and freedom, many people you'll never know have broken their hearts to get it for you. Alice Miller breakcollegedare Change image and share on social
It is possible to resolve childhood repression safely and without confusion - something that has always been disputed by the most respected schools of thought. Alice Miller childhoodconfusiondispute Change image and share on social
The reason why parents mistreat their children has less to do with character and temperament than with the fact that they were mistreated themselves and were not permitted to defend themselves. Alice Miller characterchilddefend Change image and share on social
If it's very painful for you to criticize your friends - you're safe in doing it. But if you take the slightest pleasure in it, that's the time to hold your tongue. Alice Miller criticizefriendhold Change image and share on social
Today I should not be identified with any kind of regressive therapy. Alice Miller identifykindregressive Change image and share on social
There are people who have benefited from therapy without being confronted with the past at all. Alice Miller benefitconfrontpast Change image and share on social
We produce destructive people by the way we are treating them in childhood. Alice Miller childhooddestructivepeople Change image and share on social
Learning is a result of listening, which in turn leads to even better listening and attentiveness to the other person. In other words, to learn from the child, we must have empathy, and empathy grows as we learn. Alice Miller attentivenesschildempathy share on social
A child too, can never grasp the fact that the same mother who cooks so well, is so concerned about his cough, and helps so kindly with his homework, in some circumstance has no more feeling than a wall of his hidden inner world. Alice Miller childcircumstanceconcern share on social