I was born in Brooklyn and raised in Pittsburgh. I've never been to Iran, I don't speak the language, and, probably most important of all, my Iranian father left home when I was nine months old. That's the extent of my connection to Iran. Said Sayrafiezadeh bearbrooklynconnection share on social
There's always been something a little pathetic for me at the work parties I've attended, especially thinking back to the restaurants I worked in. I remember a Christmas party in which we all got free T-shirts with the restaurant on the front and our names on the back. Said Sayrafiezadeh attendbackchristmas share on social
We were poor, my mother and I, living in a world of doom and gloom, pessimism and bitterness, where storms raged and wolves scratched at the door. Said Sayrafiezadeh bitternessdoomdoor Change image and share on social
The difference between our family and other poor families was that my mother actively chose to be poor. She was highly literate, and she had a college degree, but after my father left, she took the first secretarial job she could find and never looked for other employment again. Said Sayrafiezadeh activelychoosecollege share on social
I suppose my Iranian identity is one of the driving forces for being a writer: I want to set the record straight about who I really am. Said Sayrafiezadeh driveforceidentity Change image and share on social
I need to feel as if everything is clean and in its proper place before I can even attempt to write one word. At least, that's what I tell myself. I make the bed, I put away the dishes, maybe I dust, maybe I do the laundry, maybe I go to the post office. Said Sayrafiezadeh attemptbedclean share on social
I take pride in taking care of all the housework so that my wife, who works as a designer for Martha Stewart, won't need to sacrifice any of her leisure time when she gets home. Said Sayrafiezadeh caredesignerhome Change image and share on social
I wake when my wife wakes, at 7:30 A.M. I'd like to sleep longer, but she has to go off to work, and I'd be plagued with guilt. Said Sayrafiezadeh guiltlongplague Change image and share on social
I work in the most non-Communist job. I work for 'Martha Stewart Living.' Said Sayrafiezadeh communistjoblive Change image and share on social
My childhood was defined by my father's absence. His presence looms so large. Up until the age of 18, he was a superstar for me. Said Sayrafiezadeh absenceagechildhood Change image and share on social