I am a good and interested mother - which has surprised me. Rachel Cusk goodinterestmother Change image and share on social
There is always shame in the creation of an object for the public gaze. Rachel Cusk creationgazeobject Change image and share on social
It's a taboo that comes back over and over, to suggest that women can feel divided - that you can love your child and want to do everything for it, and at the same time want to put it away from you and reclaim something of yourself. Rachel Cusk backchilddivide share on social
It is living, not thinking, as a feminist that has become the challenge. Rachel Cusk challengefeministlive Change image and share on social
Having your second child, in case you were wondering, is a lot harder than having your first, except for those people who find it easier. I'm afraid I don't have the latest figures to confirm this. Rachel Cusk afraidcasechild Change image and share on social
In memoir, you have to be particularly careful not to alienate the reader by making the material seem too lived-in. It mustn't have too much of the smell of yourself, otherwise the reader will be unable to make it her own. Rachel Cusk alienatecarefullive share on social
I remain fascinated by where you go as a woman once you are a mother, and if you ever come back. Rachel Cusk backfascinatemother Change image and share on social
Even if they knew the truth of their own feelings, most mothers would be socially and emotionally incapable of revealing it. Rachel Cusk emotionallyfeelingincapable Change image and share on social
Childhood, after all, is not an ending, but rather a state full of potent curiosity. Rachel Cusk childhoodcuriosityend Change image and share on social
Some people are better at maths than others: no one thinks you can be 'taught' to be a mathematical genius. And no one thinks of teaching, in that context, as a kind of forcing of the will. But there seems to be an idea of writing as an intuitive pastime which is being dishonestly subjected to counterintuitive methods. Rachel Cusk contextcounterintuitivedishonestly share on social