Of the countless ways to feel old in your 40s, perhaps none is quite as perplexing as seeing a young person trendily decked out in 1980s-style garb and saying to yourself, 'I can't believe that look is back in style. It was bad enough the first time around!' Meghan Daum 1980s40sback share on social
The truth is that most of your Facebook friends are too busy counting their own 'likes' to pay attention to you for more than a few seconds anyway. Unless you happen to be a kitten who's in love with a baby goat, in which case you should hire a publicist immediately. Meghan Daum attentionbabybusy share on social
For a kid, self-esteem can be as close at hand as a sports victory or a sense of belonging in a peer group. It's a much more complicated and elusive proposition for adults, subject to the responsibilities and vicissitudes of grown-up life. Meghan Daum adultbelongclose share on social
We're not handed situations based on our established likes and dislikes; we get what's available. Meghan Daum basedislikeestablish Change image and share on social
The point of essays is the point of writing anything. It's not to tell people what they already think or to give them more of what they already believe; it's to challenge people, and it's to suggest alternate ways of thinking about things. Meghan Daum alternatechallengeessay share on social
Other dogs may do their jobs in their own unique and perfectly wonderful ways, but there will always be that dog that no dog will replace, the dog that will make you cry even when it's been gone for more years than it could ever have lived. Meghan Daum crydogjob share on social
Non-fiction about personal subjects is going to attract more user comments than a foreign correspondent writing from Syria - unfortunately. Meghan Daum attractcommentcorrespondent Change image and share on social
It may take a village to raise a child, but not every villager needs to be a mom or dad. Some of us just need to be who we are. Meghan Daum childdadmom Change image and share on social
People who choose not to have kids do so because they respect the job of parenting so much that they know not to take it on if they know it's not something that they're up for, and I don't know what to be a bigger tribute to parenting than that. Meghan Daum bigchoosejob share on social
I respond to about a quarter of comments. It's a good barometer of my mental health - when I'm healthy and busy, I don't read them. Meghan Daum barometerbusycomment Change image and share on social