I will say, in open adoption, all these choices you make about race, about the amount of mental illness you can deal with, about special needs and physical maladies, you have to lay all this out there before you know anybody's story. Jennifer Gilmore adoptionamountchoice share on social
Publishing in a way doesn't have a lot to do with writing, and writing doesn't have a lot to do with publishing. Jennifer Gilmore lotpublishwrite Change image and share on social
I couldn't really experience being an author when I was still working in publishing - I was trying to negotiate being both. Sometimes the knowledge doesn't translate between the two roles. Jennifer Gilmore authorexperienceknowledge Change image and share on social
I'm a morning person: if I don't get up, put the coffee on and get to my desk by 8, the day has already lost a lot of its promise. Jennifer Gilmore coffeedaydesk Change image and share on social
The birth mother is placing the baby out of love. I still believe that. Well, the ones we've dealt with who were actually pregnant, anyway. Jennifer Gilmore babybirthdeal Change image and share on social
As writers, we don't just need to write about poverty or war or the immigrant experience. Jennifer Gilmore experienceimmigrantpoverty Change image and share on social
I really don't feel that writing is therapy. Jennifer Gilmore feeltherapywrite Change image and share on social
While I am very much Jewish 'identified,' I'm not a very religious person. Jennifer Gilmore identifyjewishperson Change image and share on social
I know publishing now more as an author than with occasional peaks inside those elite offices than as an industry insider. It was difficult publishing a novel the first time around, while working behind the scenes, knowing all that has to happen to make a book a success and to still make the leap as an author. Jennifer Gilmore authorbookdifficult share on social
I wanted a baby of color, to be honest, because I wasn't attached to the idea that I look like the biological mother. I liked the idea of the adoption being clear; it was and is not something I am interested in hiding. Jennifer Gilmore adoptionattachbaby share on social