I really don't have any weaknesses. I do have areas of my life that I am working on to grow, heal and evolve. Giving myself permission to rest is an area I am working on. Not rescuing my children and grandchildren is another area. Iyanla Vanzant areachildevolve share on social
You've got to know what your 'thing' is, and you've got to call it a 'thing,' whether it's meanness, nastiness, un-forgiveness, arrogance, ego, resistance, rebelliousness or defiance. Everybody's got a 'thing,' and once you call your 'thing' a 'thing,' we can give it a place to be or dismiss it. Iyanla Vanzant arrogancecalldefiance share on social
Comparison is an act of violence against the self. Iyanla Vanzant actcomparisonviolence Change image and share on social
If you're not willing to let your partner see your cellulite or know your biggest fears, then you aren't really ready to share yourself. Iyanla Vanzant bigcellulitefear Change image and share on social
The thing I always tell my audiences all the time is that I'm just two steps ahead of you on a good day. And I might be two steps behind you on a bad day. Iyanla Vanzant aheadaudiencebad Change image and share on social
We really don't know how to love each other because we haven't really learned to love ourselves. In many instances, not all, it's not malicious. We've just been conditioned to such bad behavior. Iyanla Vanzant badbehaviorcondition Change image and share on social
I've always wanted people to know who they are from the inside. Then they can create the life they desire and deserve. I've always believed that my job was to facilitate the evolution of the human consciousness. Iyanla Vanzant believeconsciousnesscreate share on social
At birth, we are like cartilage - soft, flexible tissue. By the same natural process by which cartilage becomes hard bone, the soft, tender heart of an innocent child can become hardened by the circumstances into which she is born. Iyanla Vanzant bearbirthbone share on social
I don't think there's such a thing as a selfish prayer. Prayer puts you in communication so you can talk about whatever you want to talk about. Iyanla Vanzant communicationprayerput Change image and share on social
Any time there is 'un-forgiveness' between people who love each other, there is suffering. Any time people face challenges that they really don't understand... there is suffering. Iyanla Vanzant challengefaceforgiveness Change image and share on social