Any time there is 'un-forgiveness' between people who love each other, there is suffering. Any time people face challenges that they really don't understand... there is suffering. Iyanla Vanzant challengefaceforgiveness Change image and share on social
I'm the person that I always was, but in terms of how I approach my living, I'm not the same person at all. At all. I've buried a child, I've ended a marriage, and the grandson that I was raising is now grown. My family has totally shifted. Iyanla Vanzant approachburychild share on social
Everybody's got a 'thing.' Some 'things' are nice and quiet. Some 'things' have fangs and claws. Some 'things' stink and have slobber everywhere. Iyanla Vanzant clawfangnice Change image and share on social
You know, if you're a human and living on the planet, it doesn't matter what you do; you are not immune to the challenges, the trials, the difficulty. And that fact that I happen to be a coach and a minister and a spiritual teacher doesn't mean anything. I'm still human. Iyanla Vanzant challengecoachdifficulty share on social
Well the beauty of 'Iyanla: Fix My Life' is that men are in every show. To our surprise, some of the deepest healing demonstrations have been with the men - the sons, the fathers, the husbands - because they agree to participate with the wife or the daughter or whatever it is we are looking at, and it is there. Iyanla Vanzant agreebeautydaughter share on social
I've seen the good, the bad, and the ugly. Lived it and I'm still here to talk about it and help someone else if I can. Iyanla Vanzant badgoodhave Change image and share on social
I wasn't ready for fame and all that brings to your life. It was an amazing experience, but so overwhelming, because no one can tell you beforehand when it will happen or how it will impact you. So no one can tell you how to handle it, being stopped everywhere you go because people saw you on 'Oprah.' It took me over, and I wasn't ready. Iyanla Vanzant amazebringexperience share on social
I gave myself permission to feel and experience all of my emotions. In order to do that, I had to stop being afraid to feel. In order to do that, I taught myself to believe that no matter what I felt or what happened when I felt it, I would be okay. Iyanla Vanzant afraidemotionexperience share on social
I grew up in the Holiness Church, where prayer was an event. Iyanla Vanzant churcheventgrow Change image and share on social
I took my kids everywhere. I didn't have money for child care, so I took them to college with me and they sat in the hallway. Iyanla Vanzant carechildcollege Change image and share on social