People say I've had a difficult time in life. I think I've had an exciting time in life. Iyanla Vanzant difficultexcithave Change image and share on social
You know that you've healed an issue when you can talk about it and you're not weeping, when you can speak to it and identify the lesson. You know that you've healed an issue when, having gone through that, has a benefit that you live today. Iyanla Vanzant benefithaveheal share on social
Talk about your negative experiences with the father, with your girlfriends. Not with your children. And bite your tongue when it comes to diminishing, denying, dismissing, name-calling. Iyanla Vanzant bitecallchild Change image and share on social
What I am doing; how I am being as I am doing it; and does it bring honor to my community? What is the lesson in what I am doing? And most importantly, am I having fun? Iyanla Vanzant bringcommunityfun Change image and share on social
All of us have ways in which we mask and cover our pain. Iyanla Vanzant covermaskpain Change image and share on social
Oprah Winfrey gives you the stage? Shut your mouth. I said, 'I'm sorry for taking over your show.' She said, 'No, that's why we have you here.' Iyanla Vanzant mouthoprahshow Change image and share on social
I grew up in the Holiness Church, where prayer was an event. Iyanla Vanzant churcheventgrow Change image and share on social
I took my kids everywhere. I didn't have money for child care, so I took them to college with me and they sat in the hallway. Iyanla Vanzant carechildcollege Change image and share on social
I don't think there's such a thing as a selfish prayer. Prayer puts you in communication so you can talk about whatever you want to talk about. Iyanla Vanzant communicationprayerput Change image and share on social