Be willing to shed parts of your previous life. For example, in our 20s, we wear a mask; we pretend we know more than we do. We must be willing, as we get older, to shed cocktail party phoniness and admit, 'I am who I am.' Gail Sheehy 20sadmitcocktail share on social
Growth demands a temporary surrender of security. Gail Sheehy demandgrowthsecurity Change image and share on social
We have to move from the unbridled pursuit of self-gain at the expense of others to recovering appreciation for what we gain by caring and sharing with one another. Gail Sheehy appreciationcareexpense Change image and share on social
I keep returning to the central question facing over-50 women as we move into our Second Adulthood. What are our goals for this stage in our lives? Gail Sheehy adulthoodcentralface Change image and share on social
My husband, Clay Felker, died 17 years after his first cancer due to secondary conditions that developed from treatment. Gail Sheehy cancerclaycondition Change image and share on social
No sooner do we think we have assembled a comfortable life than we find a piece of ourselves that has no place to fit in. Gail Sheehy assemblecomfortablefind Change image and share on social
We really only have two choices. Play it safe, or take a chance. For me, pulling back because of fear has always made me feel worse. Gail Sheehy backbadlychance Change image and share on social
Character is what was yesterday and will be tomorrow. Gail Sheehy charactertomorrowyesterday Change image and share on social
It was so naive to think that there was nothing interesting that happened after 55. Come on, there's a whole second adulthood! Gail Sheehy adulthoodhappeninterest Change image and share on social
Most women have learned a great deal about how to set goals for our First Adulthood and how to roll with the punches when we hit a rough passage. But we're less prepared for our Second Adulthood as we approach life after retirement, where there are no fixed entrances or exits, and lots of sand into which it is easy to bury our heads. Gail Sheehy adulthoodapproachbury share on social