Central to living a life that is good is a life that's forgiving. We're creatures of contact, regardless of whether we kiss or we wound. David Rakoff centralcontactcreature Change image and share on social
I had a beautiful childhood and a lovely childhood. I just didn't like being a child. I didn't like the rank injustice of not being listened to. I didn't like the lack of autonomy. David Rakoff autonomybeautifulchild Change image and share on social
The rigors of creativity - the self-doubt, the revising, the solitude - do require a kind of self-consumption. It comes at a cost; a cost that isn't for everyone. David Rakoff consumptioncostcreativity Change image and share on social
Those weeks before diagnosis can be among the most torturous times. There is a reason you're called a patient once the plastic bracelet goes on. David Rakoff braceletcalldiagnosis Change image and share on social
I do not go outdoors... As far as I'm concerned, the whole point of living in New York City is indoors. You want greenery? Order the spinach. David Rakoff cityconcerngreenery Change image and share on social
My salvation lies in time spent alone with an X-Acto knife and commercial-grade adhesive. David Rakoff actoadhesivecommercial Change image and share on social
A secondhand wardrobe hand clothes doesn't make one an artist. Neither do a hair-trigger temper, melancholic nature, propensity for tears, hating your parents, or HIV. I hate to say it - none of these make one an artist. They can help, but just as being gay doesn't make one witty... the only thing that makes one an artist is making art. David Rakoff artartistclothe share on social
At least three times a week, I am overwhelmed with a wave of gratitude to New York City for providing me with a life. Not that my life is so great, although I think it's pretty nifty: I don't mine coal; I get paid to write. David Rakoff citycoalgratitude share on social
There is nothing so cleansing or reassuring as a vicarious sadness. David Rakoff cleansereassuresadness Change image and share on social
I aspire to write what are called 'familiar essays.' They begin in the personal and end in the universal. It's not for me to say if I have been successful at it. But that is the hope. David Rakoff aspirebegincall Change image and share on social