By definition, memoir demands a certain degree of introspection and self-disclosure: In order to fully engage a reader, the narrator has to make herself known, has to allow her own self-awareness to inform the events she describes. Caroline Knapp awarenessdefinitiondegree share on social
Our culture thrives on black-and-white narratives, clearly defined emotions, easy endings, and so, this thrust into complexity exhausts. Caroline Knapp blackcomplexityculture Change image and share on social
Women are actually superb at math; they just happen to engage in their own variety of it, an intricate personal math in which desires are split off from one another, weighed, balance, traded, assessed. Caroline Knapp assessbalancedesire share on social
On the broad spectrum of solitude, I lean toward the extreme end: I work alone, as well as live alone, so I can pass an entire day without uttering so much as a hello to another human being. Sometimes a day's conversation consists of only five words, uttered at the local Starbucks: 'Large coffee with milk, please.' Caroline Knapp broadcoffeeconsist share on social
The hard things in life, the things you really learn from, happen with a clear mind. Caroline Knapp clearhappenhard Change image and share on social
When you love somebody, or something, it's amazing how willing you are to overlook the flaws. Caroline Knapp amazeflawlove Change image and share on social
For years, I ate the same foods every day, in exactly the same manner, at exactly the same times. Caroline Knapp dayeatfood Change image and share on social
I've always been drawn to solitude, felt a kind of luxurious relief in its self-generated pace and rhythms. Caroline Knapp drawfeltgenerate Change image and share on social
Mastery over the body - its impulses, its needs, its size - is paramount; to lose control is to risk beauty, and to risk beauty is to risk desirability, and to risk desirability is to risk entitlement to sexuality and love and self-esteem. Caroline Knapp beautybodycontrol share on social
The clothes are different: pre-dog, I used to be very finicky and self-conscious about how I looked; now I schlep around in the worst clothing - big heavy boots, baggy old sweaters, a hooded down parka from L.L. Bean that makes me look like an astronaut. Caroline Knapp astronautbadbaggy share on social