Before I published anything, I dreamed of publication, but I didn't actually write for it. I imagined that writing for an audience was something for fancier people. I aspired, but mostly I wrote for myself. I wrote because it made me happy. Ariel Gore aspireaudiencedream share on social
When I was a kid, my mother's parenting style teetered between benign neglect and intense bouts of violence. Ariel Gore benignboutintense Change image and share on social
In all of my looking at happiness, one thing I noticed right away is that the opposite of happiness isn't unhappiness or even depression, it's anxiety. It is something that can constantly block our happiness, or our chance to reach that sort of meditative state in our work or our home lives. Ariel Gore anxietyblockchance share on social
Looking for the perfect day is not going to make us happy, because that day isn't going to come. Ariel Gore dayhappymake Change image and share on social
Some caregivers want to reciprocate the care they themselves received as children. Ariel Gore carecaregiverchild Change image and share on social
The first person who ever told me that happiness was work was this manic-depressive artist I knew when I was in my 20s. I was like, 'What are you talking about? Happiness just happens. That's even the root of that word. How could it be work?' Ariel Gore 20sartistdepressive share on social
Researchers warn us against walking out on married life without a dang good reason. Ariel Gore danggoodlife Change image and share on social
They say change gets more difficult as we get older - each year we're more stuck in our ways, more reluctant to learn something new. Ariel Gore changedifficultlearn Change image and share on social
When you study postpartum depression, there is a very clear understanding that in communities where you see more support, there is less depression. Ariel Gore clearcommunitydepression Change image and share on social
I've been thinking about disowning some of my genes lately. I have a few healthy, happy, long-living optimists in my family tree - most of them fans of Christian Science founder Mary Baker Eddy, a major champion of positive thinking. But I've got plenty of ancestors who played out more tortured hands. Ariel Gore ancestorbakerchampion share on social